Fat girls are simultaneously sexualized and desexualized from a very early age. I experienced it myself. A lot.

On one hand: If you're fat, you're unsexy, nobody wants to fuck you, you have zero net worth on the dating market

On the other hand: if you're fat, there's too much of you. No age appropriate clothes are made to fit you, so you are inevitably going to look too voluptuous, too curvy, too sexy. Your large breasts and hips are inappropriate. Your entire body is a distr ... action. The moment a sleeve falls out of place, you're exposing yourself.

This girl is dressing perfectly modestly, but her crime is not wearing baggy, frumpy enough clothing to disguise her curves. Even if everything is covered, the fact that people can even see they exist is too much. So she's slut shamed in front of her entire class and sent home.

This attitude contributed a lot to my own bad self image as a teen. I was regularly shamed for showing too much just by existing, so I started playing it up. I deliberately dressed provocatively and exposed as much of myself as I could get away with. I was constantly referring to myself as a slut and a hoe even though I had only ever kissed two boys. Ucenter Dress plus size formal wears for maternity brides

Fat shaming and slut shaming go hand in hand. Is it any surprise that fat girls have so many complexes about their sexuality when we're treated both as sluts AND unfuckable, just for existing?